BEYOND BOUNDARIES COUPLES COACHING

a journey to confident

and connected Non-monogamy 

My name is Lauren Hayes, and I am a relationship coach specializing in supporting ethically non-monogamous (ENM) couples and those curious about exploring ENM. My approach focuses on helping couples build their ideal relationships, regardless of their structure or the number of people involved. With over 19 years of marriage and over 5 years as part of the ENM (swinger) community, I bring both personal insight and professional training to my coaching. I offer practical advice and tailored coaching grounded in real-life experience and expertise.

Who is this for?

  • Curious Hearts

    For couples just considering non-monogamy and may not yet be sure if it is for you.

  • Adventurous Hearts

    For couples who are more than just curious about non-monogamy. Maybe you've dipped your toes in the scene once or twice, and now you're ready to jump in and explore further but…Yikes! What do we do next?

  • Deepening Hearts

    For experienced couples who have experience with non-monogamy but seek deeper insights and strategies.

WHY CHOOSE COACHING WITH ME?

privacy

Your privacy is my top priority. All of our interactions will be confidential, of course, but we’ll also discuss how you manage this aspect in your own experience and lives, giving you peace of mind as you explore this new chapter together.

relationship security

One of the most significant concerns about non-monogamy is the potential impact on your current relationship. My coaching is designed to strengthen your bond while you explore. I’ll guide you through topics and conversations that you wouldn’t know to have.

health & safety

Navigating non-monogamous relationships comes with health considerations, particularly around STIs. We will discuss safe practices, ensuring you and your partner can enjoy your experiences while maintaining your health.

What you’ll also get from lifestyle & coaching

  • Confidence and Comfort.

    Entering non-monogamous situations can be daunting. My coaching will equip you with the tools and knowledge to approach these experiences with confidence and ease, allowing you to enjoy the journey fully.

  • Self-Discovery and Expression.

    Non-monogamy is not just about exploring sexual adventure or new relationships; it's also about getting to know yourself better. Coaching encourages self-expression and personal growth, helping you to understand and communicate your desires more effectively.

  • Enhanced Intimacy.

    As you learn more about yourselves and each other, you'll find that your primary relationship becomes even stronger. Coaching fosters greater intimacy and connection, ensuring that your relationship not only survives but thrives in this new dynamic.

How it works

  • Eight 60-Minute Coaching Sessions Over 2 - 4 Months (customized for you)

    Engage in a transformative journey with eight personalized 60-minute coaching sessions. Each session is designed to address your unique relationship dynamics, helping you and your partner(s) navigate the complexities of non-monogamy with confidence and clarity.

  • Support via Email, Text, or Marco Polo

    Benefit from ongoing support between sessions through email, text, or Marco Polo. Whether you have questions, need advice, or just want to share updates, I’m here to provide timely and supportive responses to help you stay on track.

  • Tailored Resources and Reading Materials

    Receive customized resources and reading materials specifically tailored to your needs. From effective communication strategies and privacy tips to profile reviews and community integration advice, you’ll have the tools and knowledge to thrive in your chosen lifestyle.

  • Exclusive Monthly Group Calls

    Participate in an optional monthly group call exclusive to my coaching clients. These calls offer a supportive and confidential environment to discuss various topics, share experiences, and connect with like-minded couples. It’s a fantastic opportunity to build your lifestyle community and gain insights from others on a similar journey.

  • Lifestyle Event or Vacation Planning

    As part of your coaching journey, I will guide you in planning a lifestyle event or vacation that aligns with your desires. Navigate the myriad of options with my guidance to find an event or getaway that matches the type of experience you seek. This tailored support ensures that your first or next adventure in the lifestyle is both enjoyable and fulfilling.

$2,000

If ready to go, schedule your first appointment (button), email me at info@swinginglifestylecoach.com or text me at 801.477.7221.

FREE 20- 30 -MINUTE CONSULTATION

Questions? Let’s chat.

A note about coaching vs. therapy. Coaching is more future focused and what you are working towards while therapy may focus more on the past and how you got where you are today. There are overlaps between the two, of course. If your relationship is already distressed, therapy is for you. If you are in a solid relationship and you are looking to create something “more” then coaching is a great place for you.