fun stuff
lifestyle resources
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Dating / Community Sites
Sites tend to be very regional. Here’s a reference for some of them.
SDC (find me, SwingingCoach)
Swingular (Utah specific)
Kasidie (I’m SwingingCoach)
The Swinger Society (I’m SwingingLifestyleCoach)
Skirt Club - exclusive all-female community for empowerment and sexual discovery
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Lifestyle podcasts
A fun way to learn more and hear about others’ experiences. A few links below OR search on these wherever you listen to podcasts.
The Examined Lives of the Secret Wives my own podcast examining where ENM shows up and is portrayed in the media.
Swing Nation (I’m on Jan 11, Swinging 101 and Nov 14, Swinger What-If’s)
Pineapple Express (find me on episodes 33 and 41)
Our Secret Spot (me again, episodes 53 & 54)
Normalizing Non-Monogamy (Yep, episode 305)
The Monogamish Marriage
We Gotta Thing
Front Porch Swingers
Hump Day Quickies : Swinger Confessions
New Swingers Podcast
The Accidental Swingers
Shameless Sex - this is not lifestyle, but ON TOPIC for what we all do
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lifestyle vacations
Whether you are new or experienced, a lifestyle vacation can be a trip of a lifetime (but maaaaybe not one to write home about). Here are a few…
Sapio Tours: High-end European tours for the lifestyle community
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misc fun stuff
A couple lifestyle magazines, clothes, toys and lingerie, oh my! A few of my favorites, beyond Amazon.
Alt Life Magazine - Community built on consent and education with a sprinkle of spice and naughtiness. (I’m a contributor starting in August ‘23)
ASN Lifestyle Mag (I’m a contributor starting March ‘24 issue)
Yandy - lingerie and spicy clothes
Lovehoney - toys retailer with discreet packaging
Love Fitness (Pineapple Collection) - fun workout wear - pineapples might be your new favorite
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lifestyle books
These are some references that helped us as well as a fun
Ethical Slut, by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton
The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy, by Lola Phoenix
More: Hotwives & Husbands, The Adventure Begins, Jay & Bella Mojas. A story about happy couples exploring hotwife andswing lfestyles. A fun read for the curious. Their site also has some other fun info & resources.
The Gentleman’s Almanac, by Peter Roy: Not just for men in the lifestyle, but also for men in the lifestyle.
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Books - Not LS, but relevant in our world
Shameless Sex by Amy Baldwin & April Lampert. @shamelesssexpodcast
Sex Talks by Vanessa Marin (Author), Xander Marin: fun couple with great advice if you are just starting to talking about sex. @vanessaandxander
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My Free downloadable guides
Popping the ENM Question A guide for those who are curious but seek advice on how to bring it up with their partner.
Is ENM Right for You? A guide and quiz for couples considering non-monogamy.
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Organizations
Groups that formally advocate for the non-monogamous community and other important things.
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Other Cool Courses
Bella’s Jealousy Busting Master Class: Bella is a LS rockstar and was a self-proclaimed “very jealous person” before entering it. Her course is tried and true!
Beducated: Learn How to Have Great Sex
